If your constantly looking for ways to alter your image into others you see then I feel your not true to yourself. (Example)
Just because Kanye West wears a skirt doesn’t mean its mandatory for you too. Or if your ashamed to tell someone your interested in your “place of employment” because your afraid they’ll walk away then you have no self respect for yourself for wanting to deal with a person who judges on how you make a living and handle your priorities. When was the last time you really looked in the mirror?